marriage minded guys, yes, they're my friends

What’s wrong with men ??? Why they talk too much about marriage these day ??? And I’m not talking about a man, but men. Plural. It means, a lot of man talked about marriage.

Well, at least men around me.

Why guys, why ?? It’s suppose to be women stuff !

I kind of a little bit bored (and large amount of feel so funny about that =p). Come on guys, what happen with you all? You guys suppose to be the one who play around with women, flirt them and make such a fling relationship, you even should make us cry because you didn’t call us after our first date ! So, why I saw a lot of man, talked about some serious relationship we named marriage ??

So here’s the reason why I talk about this marriage thing. I always hang out with these guys in office. Well, one of the guy plan to purpose the woman he dated for 3 years on valentine’s day. As the only woman in that hang out group ( seven, including me ), he asked me a lot. Of course, I helped him as much as I could (well, that’s the greatest thing of having girl as your best friend guys, you just could come to her and asked some advice for your relationship with your girlfriend. Of course, having them as my best friends also gave me a lot of advantages, one of them is I have the access to their hot guy friends =D).

Anyway…back to this guy, so he followed our plan we created about purposing this girl. Well, we helped to set the place also, and I couldn’t believe that the girl refused it !

So we, as usual, hang out together ( seven of us ). I try to lighten him up. Until we took him to the bar, well, maybe have some drink would distracted him even just for a while. I actually didn’t approve it, but those guy said,” Ah, woman, this is how we, guys, handle everything !” I didn’t agree still, but well, it would be great for him if I also be there for him.

But that didn’t stop there. Coz this guy, who, well, I know he’s very sad about the rejection. So he kept talk about marriage.

The day after, and the day after again, and again, and again…

On, and on, and on, and on…

AH BORING !!

And you know what, the other guys also talked about marriage finally, even when we’re not around with this guy ! They talked about how women in this century are very hard to purpose. How we have so much to do list things until 10 years later so we don’t even think about marriage. How we became so much harder to get. Blablabla…

As the only woman in the group, it doesn’t mean that I would stay shut and just listen, NOOOO !!!! So I laughed, and said to them how lame they are !

Of course ! If they just talked about us, and didn’t stop saying all that things which I translate it in my own language as,” why women could be that complicated ?” they will never get any.

I mean, come on, isn’t that the fun thing when men and women been invented for the first time as a different kind of thing ? So we could stay curious one to another. Coz even I hang out with these guy a lot of time, I still don’t understand men that much anyway. And the fact showed how these men never understand woman even they had me around them. Even we ourself don’t understand ourself that much, do we ? So just face it, stay cool. You’ll love the curiousity anyway =)

So my men, please stop this marriage topic kind of thing coz we need to make our sad guy over there to accept the reality and get a life !

Beside, guys, you need to go to work, men…Stop your coffee break and smoke thing, THEN GET BACK TO HERE !!!

Thank you =D

Anyway, sad guy, after all she still love you and you still love him also and you still together even she didn’t accept your purposed, so what ? It’s not the end of the world, is it ? So just wait her for one or two year more or you guys just break up and find another girl who wants to marry you right now. Your’re too good to resist, do you ever realize about that ?

Smile =)

still here

Hi guys !

do you realize that today is a valentine day ?? Oh, yeh, course you do, specially for people who madly in love with someone =p.

anyway,

i'm so madly in such a good mood since i finally quit doing something today which i madly hated ( don't you realize that i use too much 'madly' word, here ? Oh, hell yeah ! ). sometimes when i'm so happy like this there's some piece of my heart who actually afraid that my happiness gonna fly away from me, hahaha. well, yeah, that's me, sometimes i just think about something useless and meaningless like that =p.

thursday i did my project until late in the morning ( yeah, till friday 5 am, i still awake ) and when i did my job and finally thought about have a little sleep, my boss called me at 6 am tell me about a job i should done in office so basically i need to go to the office, ah, crap !! So i did go to office yesterday, and today, on weekend, i have so much work to do which i don't even know how can i finish it on monday...

Wish me luck guys !

And smell you later =)

why ?

Sometimes i feel so cunfuse, why my life could be this hard ? Why can't i just be like anybody who seems like they really easy to get anything they want and specially what they've been dream of ? Yeah, i know, most of them are tried so hard also to get that, but they'll get that yet anyway. Why i can't be like one of them ? I also tried so hard to get those, does my effort isn't hard enough to count ?

Am i don't deserve to anything i want and i dream ?

am i don't eligible enough to get those ?

I'm so exhausted and feel like i want to quit. But if i quit, everything that i've been through will be so useless, and i don't want to let myself to do that.

But...

Oh, i don't even know what i should do right now.

If only i have someone to share with RIGHT NOW and RIGHT BESIDE ME. Not you who far, far, away from me, hikz...

Oh, yes, i'm perfectly human who ever has her time to be sad and feel so down. You can not expect me to always put that smiley face every minutes.

i'm perfectly human...

Please, let me feel this feeling for a while, i promise i'll get better soon.

Smell you later, guys =)


PS:

i kind of trying to improve my english. It's bad, really. But at least i tried !! So from now on, i will only write my blog in english, let me learn it, okay ? So for whoever you are, who doesn't understand english, i pretty much sure that you will understand mine, coz it's a very simple vocabularies i have and i used =D

orang india ituh...

Hai semua !!! Dowh, sudah lama aye ngga nulis blog yah, terakhir kapan yah ? Pas natal, atau tahun baru ?? Hahaha, anyway, maafkahlah daku yang khilaf ini =D

Baru – baru ini gw lagi suka ceting lagi. Padahal udah berapa taun ini emoh banget ceting. Biasanya cuman ceting sama Petr, itu juga urusan nopel. Lama – lama karena gw lagi break panjang yaa ngga gw buka lagi messenger gw. Kadang gw buka, si Petr online. Padahal dia bikin ym cuman gara – gara supaya bisa gampang ceting sama gw. Dia tuh sebenernya punya msn sama icq, cuman karena icq gw ngga kepake dan msn gw ngga punya, ya udah dia bikin YM. Sebenernya bisa aja sih msn dia nge-add ym gw, cuman masalahnya ym gw belom di upgrade, jadi deh dia kudu repot. Yaa... selama dia rela mah ngga pa – pa aja deh. Cuman ngga gw sapa juga biasanya, khususnya ya akhir – akhir ini. Gw bikin invisible biasanya =p. Abisnya Petr tuh kalau gw online, biasa banget deh pertanyaannya,” How’s my favorite writer going ?” Yaa...gitu deh, suka bosen jawabnya =D. Lagian suka kesian juga ngeliat dia sibuk banget di kantornya, dia kan bos perfeksionis, dikit – dikit semua dipikirin dan biasanya langsung emosi naik ke kepala cuman ngga dikeluarin kalau keliatan ngga bisa capai target hariannya. Untung aja dia suka banget olahraga makanya semua emosinya bisa tersalurkan dengan sukses =D. Kadang gw suka geli. Makanya gw suka bilang sama Petr, dia kerja aja dulu, urusan gw mah gampang. Padahal sih klo dia udah kelar kerja gw udah molor =D, beda waktunya kan 6 jam-an, cuman kita tetep sih, komunikasi lewat email. Dowh, kok jadi ngomongin Petr yaa ???

Balik lagi ke kebiasaan baru gw ceting. Ceritanya kan gw gabung di web communitynya si Petr, nah, kebetulan disini ada fasilitas cetingnya. Selama gw gabung, gw ngga pernah gunain ini. Selama ini sih kerjaan gw cuman suka ngeliat – ngeliat profile – profile orang, ngerejek-in tawaran friend request dari orang – orang yang ngga gw kenal atau bahkan mereka ngga pernah kasih comment / message ke profile gw ( dowh, gw suka males sama orang – orang yang maen ngirim friend request padahal nickname dia aja sama sekali ngga gw kenal ! Katakanlah gw pemilih dalam bertemen, cuman cukuplah di Friendster dan Penpal gw berbaik hati selalu meng-approve friend request ini meskipun mereka definitely stranger buat gw =D ), dan yang sering banget gw lakuin yaitu nge-block profile – profile orang yang maen lamar gw aja ( wkwkwkwkwkwkwk, gw rasa mereka udah kehilangan akal =D ). Suatu kali, ada orang India yang lagi online dan ngajakin gw ceting. Sejujurnya, dari pengalaman gw bertaun – taun yang lalu mengenal ceting dari ym, gw paling males yang namanya ceting sama orang Asia Selatan khususnya India & Nepal juga dari benua Afrika khususnya Nigeria. Mereka suka nyeremin gitu sih, ngerayu – rayu najis bikin gw muak dan akhirnya gw block. Makanya gw udah reflek aja mau nge-decline, cuman pas udah mau meng-klik, gw inget. Gw kan belom pernah pake fasilitas ceting disini. Kenapa ngga gw coba aja, cari tau klo disini log on nya sampe berapa menit, jadinya buat bekal gw cetingan sama yang lain disini =D. Ya udahlah, gw approve ajakan tuh orang.

Biasalah gw, ntah kenapa gw tipe ngomong banget. Jadinya pas udah log on ( setelah 30 menit loading, buset deh lama buangged ! ), dia sori - menyori sama gw sebelumnya, karena ternyata koneksinya dia lebih kacrut dari gw. Gw udah log on setengah jam, masih nungguin dia setengah jam lagi, buset deh. Awalnya pertanyaannya basic lah, dia nanya gw kuliah atau kerja. Gw jawab aja somewhere between. Terus dia nanya gw ngapain donk, ya udah gw jelasin tentang kerjaan gw yang berhubungan dengan dunia tulis – menulis ini. Dia terus nanya sama gw interest gw apaan. Sebenernya gw binun, ini interest dalam arti interest, atau gw interest nulis tentang apa. Terus akhirnya mikir, klo soal segala ke-interest-an dari movies, books, tv shows, sampe hobbies, kan udah ada di profile gw. Ya udah gw putusin maksud dia adalah soal tulisan gw. Gw jelasin dah. Abis itu jadi banyak ngomongin tema tulisan gw. Berhubung gw emang agak bawel dan topiknya gw kuasain banget, ya udah sok lah ngobrol.

Semenjak itu gw sama dia udah beberapa kali chat, ngomongin tentang banyak hal. Berhubung gw kan orangnya suka baca banget, jadi gw lumayan tau banyak hal, jadinya semua topik yang dia sodorin, beuh, gw mah expert. Dia nya malah yang suka mati gaya, karena pengetahuannya dia cuman di lapisan atasnya doank, ngga ampe detil. Suka males sebenernya klo ngobrol sama dia, dia tuh bisa ngomong panjang klo udah ngomongin materi S2nya dia, yang emang cuman itu lah yang gw tau lapisan atasannya. Tapi meski begitu, teuteup yah, berhubung gw tuh orang kota yang ternyata jauh lebih modern daripada kehidupannya dia, jadilah dia suka bilang klo ngomong sama gw berasa kya ngomong sama cewe eropa, tauuuuu semua. Yee, situ kali yang kurang gaol =p.

Nah, sejak gw kenal sama dia, gw jadi bisa buktiin omongannya si Trinity yang punya blog naked traveler. Trinity kan bilang di blognya, klo rata – rata orang India tuh lumayan ngga aware sama film luar, karena mereka kan bangga banget sama Bollywood mereka, acha, acha =D. Dan kebukti loh, sama temen gw ini, ngga gaul abis deh dia soal film. Yang dia tau sebatas film kartun, itu juga karena dia ada matkul yang ngebahas soal proses pembuatan film kartun, jadinya tau. Cuman berhubung gw punya temen – temen yang pinter, jadinya semua penjelasan dia udah pernah gw denger juga dari temen – temen gw yang otaknya encer itu. Temen India gw ini sampe heran, dia bilang orang Indo tuh pinter – pinter yah, hahaha. Orang lo juga kali, cuman lo nya aja yang ngga begaul =p.

Satu lagi keluhan gw sebenernya. Tapi klo yang ini gw ngga tau deh berlaku umum atau emang cuman dia doank yang begini. Bahasa inggrisnya itu loh, hadoh !! Mahasiswa S2, cuman ngga ngerti percakapan. Maksud gw, klo menurut dia bahasa inggris gw yang ngga oke, gw heran deh kenapa gw sama Petr selama ini go a long aja. Belum lagi sahabat pena gw yang orang Swedia, Belanda dan Jerman. Gw udah sahabatan sama mereka lama banget, ngga pernah salah ngerti klo ngomong. Baik pihak dia atau pihak gw ( tapi dari mereka, si Swedia paling lekker lah bahasa inggrisnya, ngga bercacat, perfecto abis ! ). Belum lagi gw punya dua sepupu dan om yang native orang Australi, selama bertahun – tahun sejak tante gw married sama om native gw ini dan akhirnya punya anak – anak sampe udah pada abg begini, mereka selalu bilang bahasa inggris gw bagus. Kan lucu, kenapa pas sama si India ini jadi ada masalah dalam bahasa inggris gw ?? Gw ngomong apa dia ngartiinnya apa. Terus dia tuh suka menerapkan komunikasi tuh, semua – muanya grammarnya simple. Maksud gw, klo past yah yang simple, klo future yah yang simple, klo present juga yang simple. Dia kyanya ngga mengenal klo imbuhan di-, itu tuh klo dibahasa inggrisin pake –ed juga, kya past tense. Jadinya gw suka bingung sama omongannya dia. Pernah dia ngajarin gw bilang gini,” liat donk ada -ed dibelakangnya, itu berarti past tense.”. Wkwkwkwkwkwk !!!Yeh, klo ngomongin soal grammar mah, dia tuh salah banget bikin kalimatnya. Harusnya kan itu perfect past tense, pake had been, bukan cuman ditambahain –ed di verb, ya Allah ! Cuman gw males manjangin masalah, gw bilang aja,” ok, you meant past tense, go on then.” Eh dia malah ngomel – ngomel katanya kebiasaan gw deh, mengakhiri argue dengan begitu, kan jadinya gw yang menang bukan dia. Lah ?? Gimana seeh, dikasih kemenangan ngga rela, di kasih tuin dia ngga ngerti, aneh banget. Udah gitu gw ngga merasa lagi arguing sama dia =p, orang yang aneh…

Pokoe, omongannya Trinity semua kebukti bener deh. Hebat deh si Trinity bisa ngamatin objek sampe begitunya =D

Bravo trinity !!